Hi i only have came across dating for male users. Where could i go to get quality traffic for female users sign up ? Its for dating mainstream , so adult is not so good . If theres recommendation on traffic types or sources should i try
There are not many traffic sources that can actually properly segment male and female users.
FB can do that, Google to some extent... but you would have to be whitelisted in order to promote dating on FB and it's not exactly easy on Google either.
Your best bet is to use creatives that directly call out the female audience and try to pre-filter the traffic that way.
PUSH would be the easiest to test this with, you can call out female audience in the push notification directly, which should have a positive effect on the qyuality too.
In adult, the traffic is less for female. Social media is good for targeting, however i tried but didnt get good results from the spendings, however im still quite new to the fb ads and it could be the creatives are not good enough. For push, even if i used creatives of guys, the sign ups were still male haha
Fyi, we have gender targeting options as well 
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