Here's me And Here is What I Want. Read Me if you dare... (7)
Here's me And Here is What I Want. Read Me if you dare...
Im going to be honest guys; not sure If i was going to write this down because most people I told my ambitions to, Kind of how you say.... laughed it off then told me to come back down to reality.
Here is how I look at it. Ever Since I was 14 I knew One thing was going to happen. I will never be 25 and working full time for someone else. I Just cant do that. My story Is way to long but that's not even why we're here.
So what Is my vision board?
Well,
I'm 18 years old now. I live in a 25 foot camping trailer for almost 2 years and I have Clinical depression and anxiety which basically means I was mentally fucked for many many months and now just coming back from it. Just started therapy so I belive that will help!
So for starters That is to get my parents a nice house in the upcoming months. and 2) To Get fully better mentally so i can travel again have my focus and OOMPH back!
My parents are from Romania And they are getting old so in about 2 years they want to move back to leave this world from where it all started. So they have asked me to go with them. So me being a mommy's boy who am i to say no??
But I told myself If im going to go over there. My business/es must be making good financial income where i can afford first class for me and my parents and to buy a nice big house there in cluj, oradea where my parents family is.
Another goal for me Is to be making at least 250k profit a month from AM by the time im 21 and having at least 15 people on my team.
But 1 thing I really cannot wait for Is to help others. And for me what really get's me is human and sex trafficking. It's huge in romania and around that area. It's really fucked up what goes on there and I would love to help the girls in those situations to find them back to their families and to pay for therapy from all the bad experiences.
I write alot im sorry guys. If you guys read all of it, I really want your focus. Seriously I cant watch a 10 second ad anymore.
But to recap here it is:
1) Get home for parents and dissolve this dumb mental shit
2) Be able to afford first class ticket's for me and my parents and a new house when going to romania in 2 years.
3) 250k profit a month and at least 15 teammates by the age of 21.
4) Help Human and sex trafficking victims all over Europe.
I don't want to think past 5 years ahead. It's hard for me to stay focused Like that. I need short term things to accomplish.
Anyways that's me and that is what i wan't!
- Jeremiah
Wow you're a young ambitious flaming light Jeremiah,
What I would suggest is to take a moment man.... I too was once a super eager barking dog hounding at the gate to get get get, but great things take time, and first of all I would suggest building a rock solid foundation for yourself... which will happen in due time of course. You have truly fantastic WHY's and thats super important too.
Momentum creates emotionThen on top of that, to get through depression a simple little trick find a rock in your garden, any rock that catches your eye. Now put it somewhere you see it everyday, what I did was place it next to my phone so in the morning when I put my phone in my pocket I would have that rock too in my pocket, and whenever... and I mean whenever you touch it you have to say 10 things you're grateful for. Your mum, your dad, the sun on your skin, the rain on your skin, friends, animals, music whatever in life that you can truly feel you're happy to have (to those who say they can't think of 10 things, yes you can, that is all I'll say here lol!). Doing this multiple times everyday will help to re-wire your brain away from the negative connections we can have through depression, helping your brain to form habits of gratitude and inner peace. Re-write the code man
Gratitude is an incredibly powerful force capable of overturning all depressive feelings if you practice it right.Next time you face knee weakening anxiety, instead of trying to distract yourself from the pain and gut churning razor blades in your throat, stop everything you're doing and sit with whatever thoughts are there in your mind provoking the anxiety, if its nothing in general, still sit in peace and don't fight the thoughts, don't love the thoughts, just let them be... take some deep breaths and in just moments you'll begin to feel calmer. This may take a lot of practice, but over time the true cause of your anxiety won't bother you as much, don't suppress, accept it.
Therapy is another great thing too, but only if you're completely honest and transparent with what goes on in your head. Don't be shy, they're their to help so don't dance around the bullshit and cut to the chase, provoke the depressive and anxiety feelings and see what comes out.
Another important thing is that your mum and dad also have their own lives, and its a truly amazing thing that you want to help them, but they can help themselves so instead of placing so much pressure on yourself to fix fix fix for them, begin like I've been saying, laying down the foundation for your life mate. My dad always used to tell me "many hands make light work" and all I wanted was a happy existence for him, but in reality the best work is done as a family unit. I'm the first one to say everything is possible, but I don't want you worsening your anxiety if things don't go the route of getting your parents a home because to succeed in this business it will take a lot of re-investing your cash back in for cashflow and scaling campaigns. Maybe you can help them with rent for the time being, even if takes you 2 years, then you can work on the home dream... all while living a nice peaceful existence for yourself.
So my next question is, what are you going to do next? Give me a plan of attack of how you're gonna start to generate some income, have you ran a campaign before? If not I would go through some follow alongs and see which type of traffic you think you will enjoy. You want to help others, but there is a team here and a huge community ready to help you, but in order for that to happen, you gotta make a full blown commitment to yourself. Little steps, but taken everyday, add up HUGE.
You want the life of your dreams, you can have it... but its going to take patience, dedication, work ethic & an un-relentless ability to bounce back in times of hardship. I believe in you man, you've got a huge energy about you so learn to tame that energy, continue to work on yourself and I'm sure soon enough you'll be pinching yourself.
Go for it mate <3
yo yo yo @maynzie. Thanks for stopping by. And everything you said about the depression and anxiety i do actually. instead of the rock when i get into a low swing. every morning and night i write down 10 things im grateful for and why.
I feel like when I explain it I feel more emotion. Regarding the anxiety. I tried that. Does not work only 1 breathing excerise will help a little but i will still freak the fuck out. excuse my language.
Regarding the parents I know, My siblings always tell me I put to much pressure on myself but i just want to see them happy and not have to work so hard especially after 10 kids. And Ill start taking the vitamins ASAP. my mom and dad do so i can ask them to buy me some.
And the foundation of my life. I know I got to build deep roots first to be able to sustain a big tree. And about the reinvesting I told you before I believe I work full time. So any profits i do make I plan on putting it back into all my campaigns.
So what am i going to do next? Well Like i said before I work full time. Actually 10-13 hours a day at the family shop. So It is quite hard to focus on AM but It's either this or a actual job for the rest of my life. So thats a hard no. That's how i generate my income to Put money in the bank to pay for all the software's needed.
And I have ran camps before. I started about 1.5 years ago actually. I did not know much and had no money but I went in half blind ready to make some money. There a found a "guru" which helped get the basics of everything but nothing to dive deep so i can see first hand on how to do things.
I have zero coding experience and anything with that i just fail. Which is maybe why MY FRICKEN
So i started running camps on clickfunnels on facebook from clickbank. first few offers I was a newbie. did not make any money but i learned how to use facebook and write better.
Keep in mind I cant afford a spy tool so what i would do was manually look for offers like mine on google. Take parts that sounded good. mix em up then come out with a lander hahaha.
Long story short I got lucky 1 day and made 3 sales off this dating offer that paid like 30 bucks. I was so freaking happy. That was like 9 months ago. Then the depression and anxiety hit so i was out since then for about 5.5 months then just started studying again slowly. The right way. Learn how to download landers and fix them up. Tracking i still have no idea. I cant run any camps till i get that figured out.
But ya that's my story man. It was definitely easier with no tracker and no coding. Just put your facebook pixel in your clickfunnels and off you went. now im focusing on mobile. Very interested on making push notifications work.
Well there's another stupidly long post. Sorry for making yall read all of that 
But thank you again for that in depth reply. Just goes to show how amazing this community is.
- Jeremiah
@maynzie what a fire response!
@jeremiahandor in regards to work. You do definitely need to know how to use a tracker. But you don’t need to learn how to code. I’m speaking from experience 
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HEY @Mr Green yes tracking is very important and i am in the process of doing that! Just a few bumps and bruises im figuring out. All part of the process.
- Jeremiah
Hey Jeremiah - You shouldn't have to do much if any coding honestly these days. You will just have to learn where to copy/paste some links and perhaps get a better understanding of how those links... Uhm, LINK! stuff, haha.
Funny coincidence - I'm Romanian, moved abroad over 5 years ago.
I have to echo @maynzie's thoughts when it comes to parents. It's great that you want to help them but you absolutely have to help yourself first and have a solid base when it comes to both your business and your life in general. I don't mean this in a selfish way but, in most cases, parents worry about their kids more than they worry about themselves. Getting yourself in a good situation will help them more than anything else.
When it comes to moving back to Romania, things are still pretty cheap around there, especially in small towns or the countryside. Have you ever visited the country before?
One thing that I heavily disagree with is your 250k/month goal by the time you are 21. I don't disagree with having the ambition to achieve it but I think it's better to focus on the effects such an income would have on your life, then create goals around that certain lifestyle it creates, not on the income itself.
Lastly but most importantly, just want to reiterate the importance of mental and physical health. Definitely make that your priority! It's also why I don't like the 250k/month goal by 21.While financial goals are technically measurable, there are so many factors in achieving them that are so far beyond your control... I, pesonally, prefer setting goals I can achieve.
The usual way I go about it is:
1. Figure out what the end result would look like.
2. Write down the tasks I have to complete every day/week/month/quarter that takes me towards that end result.
Physical fitness is always an easy one to give as an example. If you want a six pack, you can calculate what you have to eat each day and how much you have to workout, then break down that into a few food types and exercises. So you can end up creating a checklist that says:
1. Do 100 pushups
2. Run 5km
3. Eat 200g grilled chicken breast
4. Etc.
That's just a rough example and not actually accurate in terms of goal but I think you get the point. Breaking it down into very specific actions you can do on a daily basis is important imo. It helps you see the small progress you make. Every task you achieve is a step forward. If you only focus on the big, long term goals, it's easy to miss the immediate actions required. That's why many people get stuck watching motivational videos all day and think they are getting somewhere. Truth is, they're getting nowhere.
You can probably see that there's not so much motivational speak on STM Forum - there are things that motivate people but the vast majority of the discussions are focused on practical advice!
Salut, Manu!
Yes I've recently really understood the importance of self health but At the same time I obviously want to help my family out. But no need to worry my friends. I am focusing on myself when it comes to mental health. Its truely debilitating and if you have got it you must do everything in your power to start combating It.
Ya my dad told me things are still cheap there because he recently went to go visit. Im more excited about the journey it will take me. Really get out of my comfort zone and try new things.
And the 250k a month by 21 Is not my only goal. It is just a financial goal I would like to have by 21. IF it takes me a extra few years, So be it.
But As of right now Im still not even focused on money. Just pure learning. Figuring shit out. Then next step Is getting a campaign to break even.
Then go on from there.
Mentally wise for goals? Eating plays a big part in how you feel. So eating better. Like maynzie said to start taking vitamins which I will start doing. Im not gonna get into to much detail about this part because It is a tad personal LOL.
But I do want to thank you guys for the support and Love you studs and goddesses show me and everyone.
And Yea im huge on motivation. But only at the start. I stand by the belief that Motivation get's you started but it is discipline that will take you to where you want to go. And BEYOND!!
- Jeremiah
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