I've had ZERO luck listening to my affiliate managers...however i've had pretty good luck going through stats on
Most networks will send out "top offers lists" every week. You can also ask them for offers that have the highest EPC/CR.
However, I know for a fact that some networks will "tweak" these stats before presenting them to affiliates. So in the end, take their recommendations and stats with a grain of salt, and focus on spying and talking to people to narrow things down, then testing lots of offers yourself (your own stats will never lie to you).
And Antuen made a great recommendation (thanks!) 
Amy
Hi inferno272!
I just saw this post and it made me really happy. Thank you so much for the feedback! It's so important for us to confirm that people are satisfied with the changes and we are going the right way implementing new functions. Our goal is to make the monetization process as simple and efficient as possible.
Still, don't forget that if you have any doubts about the stats you see, or you need something even more specific - our account managers and Support Crew are always ready to help you out!
Good luck!
We at trafficmansion.com are very transparent when it comes to stats.
Regarding picking your own offers. We do provide a smartlink with all our offers rotating. But we also allow our partners to get direct links to a specific offer if they wish for that.