Can you recommend one?
I contacted Epoch and CCbill - but both are really slow with answers.
I am looking for one or multiple processors who also offer
- alternative payment options for EU like direct debit or debit cards
- alternative payment options for Brazil, and Asia countries
thnx
If you need an ADULT biller, there is not much choice actually, epoch and ccbill have the best reputation, you can also try zombaio and verotel and thats about it 
And for india, local payment gateways probably don't support Adult (non credit card payments gateway)?
Epoch has the best options for EU such as paypal sofort and debit cards.
Hit me up with a PN, I was doing the integration of the billing of the online shop of one of the biggest sextoy companies in the world. Have 2 good contacts for you.
From the 2 you have mentioned I would pick definetively EPOCH