The Point... (11)
Hey Guys,
i my past, i have tried a lot of Stuff, WSO, BSO and other Products, all with one "Goal" - Make Money on the Internet. A little Time, it worked for me.
But, someting stopped me everytime. Now i´am at this Point again. Now, it is the same as at the other "Runs" i have done. I implement all what is teached, do it for some Days. And then , BOOM, doubts. "You can loose more Money as you have losed for now" , " is it all true " , " can i be these smart guy? " "Am i worth" and other selfmanipulating shit. At these Point i loose every direction i have set up for me.
I have loosed so much Games in my life. Other Guys will not going to do anything new, i´am shure. But i start again and again... With trust in myself. Till these Point. The trust im myself squibbed like someting what has not worth a penny, my dreams, too.
I´am realy desperate about that. I have seen so much Videos with gold Messages behind. Read Books about Success. I know hundred Ways to go straight forward, have made a Mindboard ond so on. But, something in my inner stopped me every fucking time.
Is someone of you in the same position? Or, had someone of you this problems in the past?
Everyone has gone through this.
Everyone.
How did you solve it?
Originally Posted by cmdeal
Keep treading forward, self-doubt will always be there in one form or another.
"Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right." - Henry Ford
I shared this on another thread here, but it is worth repeating:
Giving up too easily is the worst thing you can you. Not just in AM but in life.
Learning is a messy, organic process.
Everyone learns at a different pace.
One common factor in learning anything however, is that hard work is unavoidable.
Here's a graph you should print out and hang on your wall:
Whenever you begin learning a new subject such as maths, science, programming, a new language, or the piano, or affiliate marketing, your enthusiasm level soars. Basic concepts are simple and easy to grasp, everything is fresh and new = this is fun!
Then comes the trough where simple things, just aren't so simple anymore. Concepts become more complex and harder to understand, everything is old hat = this is not fun anymore.
With work and perseverance, you eventually master the more advanced material and pass the inflection point, and gain confidence. Advanced concepts become easy, you get to apply the knowledge in new and interesting ways of your own choosing = this is way more fun than it was before!
When the going gets tough before the inflection point, many people tend to push back.
You see this in kids a lot. They scream. They cry. They refuse to go to school. They throw tantrums. At this point, and out of misplaced protectiveness, many parents simply, well, give up.
I have never met a so-called child prodigy who did not experience this trough or did not have a lot of hard work and perseverance behind his/her achievements.
Not one.
The idea that natural talent is all you need to achieve your goals and that natural talent means everything will come easy is false, but many people still hold on to it.
The trough is a natural and inescapable part of human learning. What's more, it's not just that one trough, but a series of troughs in any given discipline.
There is no gain without pain.
And those who quit at the first sign of pain will never make true progress in life.
Adapted from http://www.quora.com/What-are-common...e-of-ignorance
It's normal.
Everyone has doubts and not everybody is as perfect as you think.
Sometimes I don't even understand why I make so much money.
I realized this in my job as a high paid programming consultant.
I got to know a few guys who are considered to be "the best of the best".
They also have doubts.
They also fail.
They also don't know everything.
One thing I also think, is that you've bought some bullshit products in the beginning.
STM is a way better place to start.
This time you will succeed. Don't lose faith 
Originally Posted by snacks
Originally Posted by cmdeal
The part with the "natural talent" was extra addressing for me. Thats is a HUGE problem at my daily thinking.
No gain without pain. Youre right! Thats a Problem,too. In fact, the fear to loose again. I can´t stick it. At the Point, that i have talked about, thats all around me. I push back again.
Originally Posted by vitalis
Everyone has doubts and not everybody is as perfect as you think.
Sometimes I don't even understand why I make so much money.
I realized this in my job as a high paid programming consultant.
I got to know a few guys who are considered to be "the best of the best".
They also have doubts.
They also fail.
They also don't know everything.
One thing I also think, is that you've bought some bullshit products in the beginning.
STM is a way better place to start.
This time you will succeed. Don't lose faith
In fact, that i acquire some negative experience, for me its hard so dive fully into the Forum. Yesterday i do the math of the monthly revenue for the big guys in here alone with the forum, to find a good reason why that forum exist "realy".
Very negative Mindset....
I need a new lease of my AM life and Mindset...
Nothing worth it will come easy, you have to hustle.
The best way to hustle is to find the reason to hustle.
What drives you to make this work, whats the thing(s) you can think about all day long that will keep you happily working hard!?
I'd also recommend taking some time to think about exactly what's making it hard.
What is the resistance that you're feeling coming from?
It could be from the fear of losing money - but if so, why? Money's just numbers - what does losing that money mean to you? Is it fear of not having enough to live on? If so, is that justified?
Fear can be a huge ally - it can point out places where you really shouldn't be doing things. For example, if you're really burning money that could give you or your family huge problems in the future, that's definitely not a fear you should ignore.
Or is it something else? Do you worry about how you look to others? Or yourself? Or are you getting angry that it's not working? If so, what makes that anger seem reasonable?
And so on.
Often if you're experiencing huge resistance, that's your brain trying to tell you something. Figuring out what that something is can either make the path much easier, or it can show you that you need to change the path completely.
Wait! First i go here ->
I`am Joking! 
Originally Posted by stackman
Cars, Houses .. Are cool things, but that don´t push me forward.
You must know.... I lost the control over my life at i was 18 years old. Befor that happend, someone in my life tells me every fucking day, that i´am nothing worth. Nobody tells me, what i have done good. That for years bro. I don´t know on what point someting is good or bad done.
Now i´am 32... I have the "control" over my life. Have a good job, two beautiful girls and a nice home. But i feel no success, or a point, who a man sayes "hey i made it, that is all i want".
One thing makes me happy, too. I realized it as i´am writing these Words here. I will make money in the internet, and have my girl around me! That makes me feel happy!
Originally Posted by caurmen
In my family there is no one, who has big success. my father struggles around since today, make a buisness on close it, be here be there. make the next "million" bla bla. In the last month i realized, that i reflect a lot of his beeing/speaking. He´s a dreamer, not more. But i find him in a lot of my behaviors. Thats not good! Sorry for the hard words, but he´s a looser.
I think... The reason for the "point" is, that i have never realized success in my life. I can´t see myself, when i look into a mirror. I don´t know this guy. What he is, waht he has done. Do you know what i mean?
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Oh men, i tell you all this shit. i dont every talk to someone so free... Dont get me wrong. i´am not here to cry, or tell you all about my life... I WILL STACK MONEY and get into the boxing ring against my mindest and my old life. for this reason i´am here. But the "Point" get me some days ago. And I have to talk to my Coaches in the STM Corner, what i can do to fight against that ugly "point"-bitch. Thanks for your helping words, guys.
Sounds like you've been doing some good thinking there. Understanding who you are and why you do what you do is really valuable to keep going when things get tough. Nice one.
Now get back in there and start testing!
Looking forward to hearing how you get on, and of course we'll all be here to help out.
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