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THE 20 MINUTES RULE: 1 Small Lifestyle Change, 1 MASSIVE POSITIVE Impact on Your Life (15)
06-19-2014 08:45 AM
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cmdeal (Veteran Member)
THE 20 MINUTES RULE: 1 Small Lifestyle Change, 1 MASSIVE POSITIVE Impact on Your Life
There a thread at Quora on "What small lifestyle changes have the biggest impact on your life?" This is one of the best responses, and it is even more relevant to Internet marketers and the work that this business requires.
THE 20 MINUTES RULE: 1 Small Lifestyle Change, 1 MASSIVE POSITIVE Impact on Your Life
Whenever I would come home from a long day at work or school, I was so tired the only things I could find energy to do were mindless life-negating nonsense-- television, Netflix, Reddit, Facebook, whatever.
Every night I would somehow find hours of time to do these things (despite being extremely tired), suddenly get a burst of energy towards midnight, stay up way too late, and then get extremely tired the next morning. This cycle would repeat until the weekend, where I would stay up too late on Sunday, and be tired the following Monday. Wash, rinse, repeat.
Several years ago, I replaced this nightmarish routine with the twenty minutes rule.
Now, the moment I get home, I force myself to do at least twenty minutes of one of the following-- write an article, read a book, practice chess, learn another language with DuoLingo (I try to do this on my phone, not laptop to minimize the risk of distraction), practice guitar, meditate, work on a computer programming language, or improve flexibility with stretching.
Once you get passed that twenty minute commitment, you will find that you have the energy to keep going. Over the course of a couple of days, you will have finished a book -- which, for many people, will be the first time they have done so in a long time.
If you simply don't have energy to continue past twenty minutes, or to even start the twenty minutes-- GO TO SLEEP. There is precisely no benefit to watching Netflix until you pass out from exhaustion, only to be tired the next day.
You need to make it a habit: don't have energy? Go to sleep. Do have energy? Spend it making yourself better.
The key to progress is recognizing that any forward movement brings you closer to your goal. Humans reliably fail to set aside time to do the things we really want to do, and reliably succeed at finding time to do the things we know won't make us better.
When I wake up every morning, ask me what things will make me happy today, and I will tell you: being with my family, eating good food, having rewarding, meaningful conversations with friends, learning interesting things about the world, going on adventures, and so on. Now ask me at the end of the day how I spent my free time, I will tell you: Twitter, Facebook, Reddit, responding to angry internet comments.
Ask any parent and they will tell you the same thing, "I honestly don't know what I did with all my free time before I had kids." The answer is you did nothing, and now you filled that nothing with a kid....and if you have another kid you'll see that there is a lot of time you're still wasting.
When people don't plan, they aren't ready to take advantage of opportunities that avail themselves, and so they play Angrybirds and watch Netflix because it takes less energy than figuring out something to do at that moment. I call this the "path of least resistance problem." To make ourselves more sensitive to opportunities that can decidedly improve our lives, we need to structure our routines to make the path of least resistance difficult. One way to do this is the twenty minutes rule.
If we want to do something trivial, something that likely won't matter in the grand scheme of our lives, like meeting a colleague for lunch, we will pencil a time in our calendars and get it done. But when we want to do something important and enriching, something we know will matter greatly in the grand scheme of our lives, like writing a book or learning a language, we say "I'll get around to it." We don't pencil in the twenty minutes a day necessary to become the person we really want to be. And so we need to challenge the impulse to relegate our passions and our ambitions to something our future self will do down the line.
06-19-2014 08:53 AM
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maynzie (Moderator)
I <3 you CM
06-19-2014 01:40 PM
#3
bbrock32 (Administrator)
Great article!
I can associate myself in both scenarios. Sometimes I get really lazy and waste entire weeks just watching tv series or killing time on reedit.
However many more times I get immersed in work and am super focused, working even 14 hours a day.
I think I still need to find a middle ground to balance them.
06-19-2014 02:20 PM
#4
cmdeal (Veteran Member)

Originally Posted by
cmdeal
Now, the moment I get home, I force myself to do at least twenty minutes of one of the following ... learn another language with DuoLingo
If you have never used Duolingo, download this now. I cannot recommend this highly enough.
This is much better than stuff like Rosetta Stone, and best of yet, it is completely free.
The guy who developed it is an amazing individual who I cannot admire enough, and his achievements are enough to make anyone feel inadequate
Luis von Ahn (born 1979) is a Guatemalan researcher, entrepreneur and an associate professor in the Computer Science Department at Carnegie Mellon University. He is known as one of the pioneers of crowdsourcing. He is the founder of the company reCAPTCHA, which was sold to Google in 2009. As a professor, his research includes CAPTCHAs and human computation, and has earned him international recognition and numerous honors. He was awarded a MacArthur Fellowship (a.k.a., the "genius grant") in 2006, the David and Lucile Packard Foundation Fellowship in 2009, a Sloan Fellowship in 2009, and a Microsoft New Faculty Fellowship in 2007, and the Presidential Early Career Award for Scientists and Engineers in 2012. He has also been named one of the 50 Best Brains in Science by Discover Magazine, and has made it to many recognition lists that include Popular Science Magazine's Brilliant 10, Silicon.com's 50 Most Influential People in Technology, Technology Review's TR35: Young Innovators Under 35, and FastCompany's 100 Most Innovative People in Business.
Siglo Veintiuno, one of the biggest newspapers in Guatemala, chose him as the person of the year in 2009. In 2011, Foreign Policy Magazine in Spanish named him the most influential intellectual of Latin America and Spain
06-19-2014 03:42 PM
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caurmen (Administrator)
I can't recommend stretching highly enough, from the activities on that list.
Particularly if you spend hours at the computer, tension builds up to an astonishing extent, and can cause a massive range of apparently unrelated medical complaints and general quality-of-life reductions.
An effective stretching routine doesn't quite deal with those problems on its own, but it's a hell of a good start. You'll be amazed how much better you feel after a couple of weeks of regular stretches with good form.
Look at psoas / hip flexor, lower back, neck and shoulder stretches in particular.
06-20-2014 01:58 AM
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John Jonas (Senior Member)
I understand what you mean. For me, I try to find time to play golf everyday. It relaxes me. It gives me time for myself when I play alone. It lets me bond with my kids when I play with them. It's my moment of pure, unadulterated bliss.
06-20-2014 02:19 AM
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sidsevensix (Member)
I buy into that... ill be tired and tell myself only do10min of it... before I know it ive done 60
06-22-2014 02:12 PM
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Mr Green (Administrator)

Originally Posted by
cmdeal
If you have never used Duolingo, download this now. I cannot recommend this highly enough.
This is much better than stuff like Rosetta Stone, and best of yet, it is completely free.
The guy who developed it is an amazing individual who I cannot admire enough, and his achievements are enough to make anyone feel inadequate
Luis von Ahn (born 1979) is a Guatemalan researcher, entrepreneur and an associate professor in the Computer Science Department at Carnegie Mellon University. He is known as one of the pioneers of crowdsourcing. He is the founder of the company reCAPTCHA, which was sold to Google in 2009. As a professor, his research includes CAPTCHAs and human computation, and has earned him international recognition and numerous honors. He was awarded a MacArthur Fellowship (a.k.a., the "genius grant") in 2006, the David and Lucile Packard Foundation Fellowship in 2009, a Sloan Fellowship in 2009, and a Microsoft New Faculty Fellowship in 2007, and the Presidential Early Career Award for Scientists and Engineers in 2012. He has also been named one of the 50 Best Brains in Science by Discover Magazine, and has made it to many recognition lists that include Popular Science Magazine's Brilliant 10, Silicon.com's 50 Most Influential People in Technology, Technology Review's TR35: Young Innovators Under 35, and FastCompany's 100 Most Innovative People in Business.
Siglo Veintiuno, one of the biggest newspapers in Guatemala, chose him as the person of the year in 2009. In 2011, Foreign Policy Magazine in Spanish named him the most influential intellectual of Latin America and Spain
Just downloaded it to help me with my mammoth task to master Dutch.
06-22-2014 02:16 PM
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Mr Green (Administrator)
...they don't have English to Dutch dammit.
06-22-2014 02:40 PM
#10
doppelganger (Member)

Originally Posted by
cmdeal
Whenever I would come home from a long day at work or school, I was so tired the only things I could find energy to do were mindless life-negating nonsense-- television, Netflix, Reddit, Facebook, whatever.
Every night I would somehow find hours of time to do these things (despite being extremely tired), suddenly get a burst of energy towards midnight, stay up way too late, and then get extremely tired the next morning. This cycle would repeat until the weekend, where I would stay up too late on Sunday, and be tired the following Monday. Wash, rinse, repeat.
This is exactly what I do! I've been working on ways to be more organized and be more effective at how I use my time each day. Thanks for the great tips!
I also just downloaded DuoLingo, what a cool app!
Another great post from cmdeal, thanks!
06-22-2014 10:59 PM
#11
bentho (Member)
Great post... been there! 
06-23-2014 12:26 AM
#12
armaanreza (Member)
This is one of the best advise in my life... Thank you cmdeal
06-23-2014 12:36 AM
#13
stackman (Administrator)

Originally Posted by
cmdeal
If you have never used Duolingo, download this now. I cannot recommend this highly enough.
This is much better than stuff like Rosetta Stone, and best of yet, it is completely free.
The guy who developed it is an amazing individual who I cannot admire enough, and his achievements are enough to make anyone feel inadequate
Luis von Ahn (born 1979) is a Guatemalan researcher, entrepreneur and an associate professor in the Computer Science Department at Carnegie Mellon University. He is known as one of the pioneers of crowdsourcing. He is the founder of the company reCAPTCHA, which was sold to Google in 2009. As a professor, his research includes CAPTCHAs and human computation, and has earned him international recognition and numerous honors. He was awarded a MacArthur Fellowship (a.k.a., the "genius grant") in 2006, the David and Lucile Packard Foundation Fellowship in 2009, a Sloan Fellowship in 2009, and a Microsoft New Faculty Fellowship in 2007, and the Presidential Early Career Award for Scientists and Engineers in 2012. He has also been named one of the 50 Best Brains in Science by Discover Magazine, and has made it to many recognition lists that include Popular Science Magazine's Brilliant 10, Silicon.com's 50 Most Influential People in Technology, Technology Review's TR35: Young Innovators Under 35, and FastCompany's 100 Most Innovative People in Business.
Siglo Veintiuno, one of the biggest newspapers in Guatemala, chose him as the person of the year in 2009. In 2011, Foreign Policy Magazine in Spanish named him the most influential intellectual of Latin America and Spain
This looks amazing. I'm testing out the 20min theory and going to learn french for the month!
06-10-2015 06:10 PM
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cmdeal (Veteran Member)
This is just great news. I love Duolingo, and the founder of the company is a true hero of mine.
Duolingo Raises $45 Million Series D Round Led By Google Capital, Now Valued At $470M
http://techcrunch.com/2015/06/10/duo...alued-at-470m/
Duolingo, the free language learning service co-founded by reCAPTCHA inventor Luis von Ahn, today announced that it has raised a $45 million investment round led by Google Capital. The company’s previous investors, which include the likes of Union Square Ventures, NEA and Kleiner Perkins Caufield & Byers, as well as Ashton Kutcher and Tim Ferris, also participated in this round. This round brings Duolingo’s total funding to date to $83.3 million and the company says its valuation is now around $470 million.
Duolingo says its free language learning tool currently has over 100 million users worldwide. More people are now using it to learn languages in the U.S. than in the entire public school system, the company claims. Over 100,000 teachers have also registered for the company’s free platform for schools.
“Duolingo’s mobile-first, adaptive, and gamified platform is changing the way people are learning languages across the globe,” said Laela Sturdy, partner at Google Capital. “We were blown away by Duolingo’s growth and engagement numbers, and we’re thrilled to partner with them as they shape the future of education.”
It’s worth noting that von Ahn already has a bit of history with Google. He sold reCAPTCHA to the company in 2009 and even before that, Google licensed one of his ESP Game to power the Google Image Labeler, which was online from 2006 to 2011.
The company says it will use the new funding to “make the platform even more adaptive, personalized and effective, and to expand the platform’s presence in schools across the globe.”
06-12-2015 02:52 PM
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cbrughmans (Member)
Very good tips. I also find that going for a run gives me an energy boost - physical exercise will generally help you be more focused mentally.
I think going for a run three times a week (between 6 and 12 kilometers) is perfect to stay sharp, and get to work with a full-power attitude.
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