I am seeing a lot of (new) affiliates still fighting against the odds with several well-known adult traffic sources. I understand why TJ and Exoclick are some of the obvious choices, especially when you are just starting out but the key to success in this world starts with the right traffic source.
While I know some affiliates are still kicking ass on these sources I personally think the prices are way to higher to even consider general adult offers without INSANE good angles on both your banners and landing pages.
Adult traffic shouldn’t cost you 1$ per M because the quality of this traffic just isn’t there. On most of the well known adult sources you will have 10 to 15 guys bidding each other up and the only ones getting rich are the traffic sources themselves.
A few nice guides get written and some tutorials are made and out of the blue you get a hundred+ new affiliates grinding a source that is far from easy to profit with.
ROIs just don’t last that long because you are bound to be copied and you are working with traffic that HAS seen it all before…
I compiled a decent list with websites below just to provide examples and I honestly just did some Google searches and a bit of research to find them and while I wanted to add a ton more I decided to leave that up to you and just share my opinion instead.
To become a top affiliate you should not just work with the traffic sources that are handed to you but in fact find your own. Just like YOU being the one creating new angles and landing pages you should also be the one to find that cheap traffic source with volume that can bring some amazing ROIs in your pocket.
Find a bunch of my ramblings below…
(Warning… ZERO structure within this post)
GAY TRAFFIC SOURCES:
Online buddies.
Gay adult traffic advertising network with some good websites in their inventory.
Advertising:
http://online-buddies.com/advertising/?lang=en
Example website:
http://www.manhunt.net
Squirt.
Standalone adult gay dating website that you can personally contact for advertising.
Advertising:
http://www.squirt.org/shared/static_...OW_LAYOUT=True
Example website:
http://www.squirt.org/
Recon
The largest kink website for guy who like guys in hear. Over one million members worldwide.
Advertising:
http://www.t101.com/index.html
Example website:
http://www.recon.com
Some more information:
There are not a ton of gay dating offers available but if you can find the traffic sources and test it on at least a few you will open a lot of doors for both the potential offers and networks you are working with.
Each adult, dating offer should be able to come up with a landing page targeting GAY, and you can be one of the first to push this hardcore.
Only browsed for a few good minutes to find these websites so I am sure you can come up with a hundred more sources.
ADULT MEDIA BUYS
Mainstream adult websites: (Possible media buys)
Voyeur web
http://www.voyeurweb.com
This website has a lot of traffic especially in the USA and just one advertising spot that is being used. Will have to contact them directly for a media buy.
Girlfriend Videos
http://www.girlfriendvideos.com
Another huge adult website that only sells advertisement direct. Already being advertised on but not as much as the well-known adult websites.
The Hun
http://www.thehun.net
Another high volume adult traffic website that is open for advertisement. It’s already being used for adult dating.
You can contact them right here for media buys:
http://www.thehun.net/webmaster/
Stocking Mania
Big adult niche website with pictures and videos and I could not spot any adult dating advertisement.
http://www.stocking-mania.com
I Seek Girls
Another big adult website that might be willing to take your media buy for some nice adult dating offers. It looks like they are just promoting on this site themselves.
http://www.iseekgirls.com
Free Ones
Huge website in most countries that is promoting a lot of adult programs but I haven’t seen adult dating. You can contact the directly and propose a media buy.
http://www.freeones.com
Ebaums World
I’m sure you have seen it before and I don’t know why I am adding it to this list but I love going from non-adult websites to adult. It often makes up for great conversion rates. This website most likely won’t allow full-blown adult but I have seen bikini girls and all that.
I’m sure you can get creative enough to run adult dating on this site *cough* *cough*.
http://www.gorillanation.com (Advertising network)
Fet Life
FetLife is a FREE Social Network for the BDSM & fetish community. They allow you to contact them for direct advertising and I am pretty sure they would accept adult dating offers.
https://fetlife.com (Scroll all the way down)
BBW Xtube & Others
This website would work a little bit difference as this is more of a gallery traffic generating website that just keeps linking to other websites. There are some sweet BBW offers out there that would make a good fit on this network.
Might be worth a try to contact the owner and ask for a few advertising spots for some BBW offers. He most likely has a lot of other websites as well.
http://bbwxtube.xxx
Extra Extra Extra
While on the subject of these sorts of trade websites I would also like to add that you could find a ton of these websites that are just doing trades to gather traffic.
Most of them use the same sort of trading scripts for example:
http://www.goodfattube.com/crtr/trade.php
You can take the beast mode route and setup a couple of these BBW trading websites yourself and start gathering traffic by trading with websites like the example above.
Once you get enough you can easily sent floats of traffic to a couple of good converting BBW offers and it won’t cost you a dime.
Here is another one:
http://www.fatmomtube.com
OTHER HELPFUL WEBSITES
Huge list with top adult websites.
You can use this website to find a lot of the bigger adult websites for media buys. Most of these are already listed under advertising parties but you might just find a nice goldmine.
http://www.tblop.com
I know some of you might not have to budget to do this but you always have the option to contact the websites currently being ran on trafficjunky, exoclick etc for a possible custom banner position.
I’m not sure what margin these advertisement networks are taking but I you could possible make a deal that way.
Also keep in mind that TJ & Exoclick are basically doing the same thing as you are and that is finding new traffic sources to add to their network.
I would also like to point out again that going from non-adult websites (Think FB) to >>> adult offers you can really kill it.
I’m not going in detail with that and I am pretty sure you guys can come up with a lot of creative ways to go around that.
You already KNOW that a lot of guys are pushing like this on FB but there are a ton of other traffic sources out there that could possible do just as well and that don’t have a full blown army ready to snitch your accounts a way.
*Think entertainment websites, websites for GUYs etc… We all know sex sells and not just on sex sources.
Cheers
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You just outed one of my secret sources bro.....
Cats out of the bag Stackers, chop chop!
(Awesome post!)
Nice post man!
It takes just so little time to do the research and be one step ahead of the normal affiliates , but still so few people do it.
Great post! Thanks.
(And yep, one of my secret sources outed in there too...)
Anyone have any experience advertising gay dating ... on a gay dating site? Seems strange ... Could advertise gay porn on it I suppose..
Anyhow - thanks for the post OP! Gotta find more traffic sources..

Amazing share, thanks a lot!