This post may sound like a complaint, but it is not one… or maybe just a little 
As my English is not my first language I'm not sure it will translate well my thoughts, I will do my best! Please be kind and read well, you should understand.
I am a member of this forum for 3 months now. I joined because I was told that I would find a lot of useful information and a community that helps each other. This is true for the information, I'm not really sure in terms of support, maybe I didn't quite clearly asked. I will do but before, here is the report of my first three months in this forum.
After writing my introductory post ( http://stmforum.com/forum/showthread...ay-to-0!-quot-) ), I looked in the newbie section and I decided to follow instructions of the STM Getting Started Guide. As mentioned in my introduction post, my Facebook account is banned so I chose PPV, the other option of the Guide.
On first week, I launched 7 campaigns in various niche. Cost = $70.00 Revenue = $1.20
WOW!
It was time to start a Follow Along and I did a post ( http://stmforum.com/forum/showthread...steps-with-PPV ) and wait… After a week, there were 100 views, 3 replies: one member say "I'm in the same boat as you", the other post was from a friend and the third one from me! What did we say about this community that helps each other? Maybe I misunderstood this principle because, until now, I helped few members with their Facebook campaigns (I still consider myself a newbie but I can say that I have found some good tips about Facebook) but I don't received any helpful advice on this forum.
However, a member PM me:
"Hi, I just saw your post about starting on PPV, I wish you good luck on that.
I also saw that you did well on Facebook in the past. We are also doing pretty well and also have access to a bunch of accounts so I'm wondering if you're interested in a JV? We can provide the accounts and front the cash while you set up the campaigns and we can split the profits.
Add me on Skype if you're interested, I'm xxxxx"
WOW! (Again!)
I was very excited as I was thinking to do a JV since awhile and even more since I read a post of Finch who was suggesting this. I contacted this guy and exchange many emails to finally understand that I could use his Facebook account if I send $13,000: $3,000 to "lease" his account, $10,000 to do ads and I would have to give him a percentage of profits. "K___", you're really funny, you could recycle yourself in the humour business if ever your Facebook account is banned. I'm working at least 12 hours a day to pay the University fees to my sons, I'm not looking to send money oversea to a clown!
Hmm… Sorry for that moment of frustration, I had a hard week! 
O.K. I must keep it short! So, when I was waiting for answers to my post, I continued to search the forum for tips and motivation and I seen this post from stackman: http://stmforum.com/forum/showthread...t-to-x-xxx-day!
He said: "PPV is hard to scale and is cluttered from it's big boom in 2011."
Thanks for the info Sir! I have a suggestion here: you should review your Guide and make some update!
Ah! Sorry again! I really had a bad week!
Hopefully, there were some good suggestions in this post like Adult and Mobile, 2 niches I wanted to get my feet wet with since awhile. I searched the forum again and founded other great information. I learned to build landing pages for mobile and, as suggested in a post, I opened an account with F5Media. I launched some campaigns for mobile and computers on TrafficJunky, ExoClick and AdXpansion. I had one profitable campaign, I earned $100 per day for 2 days then TrafficJunky stopped all my campaigns! There was a problem with the redirect link of an offer (not from F5 I must say) and they thought that it was a malware. After a week and after I forwarded an email from my AM explaining the problem was from their link, they reactivate my campaigns. The same day, my (only) profitable offer was stopped! (Another fucking bad week obviously!)
Then, few weeks ago I sent a PM to maynzie because he said in a post: "If you run some adult or mobile, let me help scale your ass through the roof". I'm sure he is very busy, maybe I have to wait another month to get an answer? Anyway, It's not a big deal since I was accepted into an Advanced Mastermind Group to talk about mobile and adult. Whoops! It was on May 19, I should have some news soon, I contacted the leader 2 weeks ago. He is surely very busy too, I will wait.
To be honest, I will not wait for very long time. Next month is coming in 4 days. Until now, I gave to some members but I received nothing. I agree that I paid for great information but I need more. Is this forum really a community that helps each other or not? A "Give & Take" or a "Take & Run"? If someone here wants to help, here is my goal: make $1.00 profit in the next 3 days. That's it! Just one buck. I want to earn $1.00 from a scalable method then I will earn $10, $50, $100 and $1,000 in a single day as I did with Facebook last year.
I'm waiting for your suggestions. What would you suggest to earn $1.00? I don't care if I must invest $1K if at the end of the day the revenue is $1,001.00.
I have a Bing account, a POF account (but not very interested by POF for the reasons stackman gives in his post mentioned earlier), I have money waiting on LeadImpact, TrafficJunky etc.
Is this working yet: http://stmforum.com/forum/showthread...r-Being-Banned...
There are many possibilities and, once again, great information in this forum, but I feel overwhelmed and I don't want to give up nor leave this forum and I don't ask to anyone to do the work for me (message to my F5 AM here!), I just want to be pointed in the right direction, just that. I would not have taken much of the evening to write this post in English if I wanted to give up. If I reply to this post on July 1st, I will have earned $1.00. If you do not see my reply, I wish you every success for the rest of your online adventure.
Thank you very much for reading and thanks in advance for your reply and/or suggestions.
Ok from what I read your first problem is you have tried everything, you have no focus.
7 campaigns in different niches, spending $70 total is not going to teach you anything. Then you move from TJ, to FB, to POF, to PPV. You need to stop and focus on one.
Which one has the potential to earn you $1/day? Anyone of them can make you $1 a day.
Which one should YOU focus on? The one that you have most success with already. Which sounds like adult/TJ.
What is the absolute sure fire way of making money with TJ? Click this link. Everything you need is right there. You see creatives, landers, offers, and traffic source. The rest is on you. Launch some campaigns ONLY on TJ ONLY on one niche. Make big enough tests that will give you statistical significance. Then come back and we can give you feedback based on your data.
Keep your head up man. I've been here a year, and while the information on this forum is excellent, I've found the people here to be to be the best anywhere. The relationships I've made off this forum are priceless and have made me 1000000x the money that any follow along or step by step guide has. My advice would be to go to a meetup, meet the guys in person and network everything will fall into place after that. 
As Mr.Green sad, focus is your problem. In your PPV thread you say you tested a few offers but based on your data no real tests were done. After joining this forum I was doing PPV only and I can say PCBackup works, Garcinia works, penis pills including VigRx work and no doubt people make money on car insurance offers 
It took me more than 160 campaigns to find a dozen of winners and I was able to scale two of them, get pay bumps and weeklies - all you need to have a competitive advantage. But just because PPV isn't niche scalable (still good volume for broad offers), I think to move to adult space.
Last week I launched a few campaigns on adult, got some data, put questions and got answers. Just do it.
Come on, man. Start here. Then read this a few times: http://www.oooff.com/php-affiliate-s...nce-and-stuck/
1 traffic source, 1 offer (split tested). Then this one.
One dollar mindset doesn't help here. Define your budget and work, work, work.
Seriously man, you saying you read that post what works in 2013... Nice you read it, but why don't you follow that CLEAR advice to stick with 1 thing, try hard, make it at least breakeven and taking it from there?
Lemme put some things straight about this business. I'm not running big numbers on paid (shame on me although being that long in that forum for that, but trying hard and sticking to adult since 2 months for now) but I'm in the affiliate marketing business for 4+ years fulltime. Though most of my income came from SEO and especially gambling for both SEO and paid and I'm not nearly as experienced on paid as other guys, read this lines, I think 99% of the people will agree:
1) Nobody will make it for you. You gotta work your ass off to see ANY progress at all. Stick your head into ONE vertical, master ONE source first and take it from there.
2) People WILL put you in the right direction, but they will only advise and not mentor you. Don't expect anybody mentoring you just because you ask for it.
3) You said you been waiting for answers. I bet 90% of the answers you been looking for could have been researched using the search function. If not, hit up people more experienced on this forum. I've personally done this several times, people contacted me about gambling, and by asking in a friendly, polite tone, I honestly NEVER got rejected.
4) Your follow along was VERY generic and no specific data / screenshots / examples given. I did a follow along myself and must admit I received a TON of feedback, but at the same time I felt like I at least tried to provide detailed infos and worked my ass off to make it look nice and detailed. You did not from what I see.
5) Other people pay same for this forum as you do. It's their GOOD WILL to help you, not their obligation. The mods on here usually are pretty helpful, I had some nice convos with a lot of guys although I never did big numbers or really helped them. It's always about what you offer in return, even if it's just a follow along showing you're putting in a lot of hard work. The key by subscribing to a forum like that is longterm, it's to find networking opportunities and find like-minded people to start cooperating / exchanging with. This is not a cook your dinner evening course...
6) You did 30 (!) posts in 3 months. What do you expect ? Are you communicating over that forum? Are you participating? Not really. Don't expect the golden plate by posting every 3 days...
6) I know this sounds rude, but it's just reality: nobody gives a fuck if you succeed or not unless you're getting befriend for a reason. This reason could be getting in touch, finding people that are just on the same 'flow' as you and you feel sympathy for or helping others and get something in return.
As bottom line, take this as kind of a blueprint on how to see first success and get a 'base' for a campaign on adult, it worked for me, it works for others, it sure will work for you:
1) Take a smaller placement on TJ. Don't worry about volume for now, volume is your smallest problem right now.
2) Put out a campaign with 10 creatives. Those 10 creatives, do them with 5 different styles / themes, meaning you do 2 creatives per banner style, just different image. Add 2 landers in the mix that are running already, but modify them a bit not just pure rip.
3) Let it run for around $120 and you'll see at least 1-2 creatives somehow breaking even with a specific LP. In addition, you'll see 1 LP outperforming the other (likely).
4) Take it from there. Duplicate those winning styles, take the better LP and run another day for bigger sample size. Read your data and you got a step in the door. Get cheaper clicks by increasing CTR and find yourself leaning towards the green.
If you're that pissed about the people in this forum or this forum in general, hit the cancel subscription button as an option...
I've been on a few forums, some free and some paid. And I must say this one is BY FAR the best in terms of information, attitude and help.
I think you're just looking for an excuse to justify your failure... but the only excuse is that your're not working or trying hard enough.
Not saying I'm a crazy worker, but when I slack off and fail... I know its my own fault and not somebody else's
Lots of good advice here already!
I'll just add one thing - I know that it can sometimes be hard to find specific information on Stack That Money. I'm indexing it and making it more easily findable as one of my top priorities. Given that we've got over 100k posts, it's a huge job.
So, in the meantime: if you need specific information, can't find it, and have asked on the forum and not gotten a response, feel free to PM me and ask directly. I will respond within 3 days unless something very unusual is happening, and I'll do my best to find that info if it exists on STM. Obviously, I can't promise answers for everything, but if it's out there, I can probably find it.
Obviously, this is also useful for me and the Stack That Money mods. The more information we have on what people are looking for, need, or are confused by, the better we can meet that need and make this community even more awesome.
Good luck, and I'm looking forward to seeing you succeed!
I don't want to repeat what everyone above me said , but these two things helped me a lot when I started :
1 - Never give up or get discouraged , even when nothing seems to work.Others are making tons of money so there is a way to it.
2 - Test , test and test some more . At the end it's about the guy that put the most effort and tested most offers.
With all the info here and the spy tools around , finding a winning campaign is just a matter of not giving up.
Try for a month launching 1 new campaign each day . Keep it simple , no need for fancy stuff.
Keep us updated how it goes!
yeah.. do some graft and you'll be rewarded. I've been sat here today since 10am uk time (now 2.30pm) working on a landing page. Twiddling with CSS, trying out different layouts.. If you don't put the graft in, and just chuck campaigns up willy nilly.. you're pissing in the wind. And there's a storm brewing..
First of all, thanks to all of you who took time to reply. Finally I got answers! 
I agree with critical as long as they are constructive and justified. For cons, I will not accept being told that I did not work hard enough or, worse, that I'm waiting from others to do the job for me. I begin my post by explaining that my English is not very good but it seems to me that when I say I work at least 12 hours per day, it is said in plain English. Same thing when I say that I am not asking anyone to do the job for me. The fact that I have not quite worked is what stands out most in your comments. This is completely false. Reread my post, not the answers of others. I can not accept this criticism.
@Mr Green About focus, I should clarify that this is what I do for 2 months. I focus on one target : adult (and mobile too but for adult niche). I made seven campaigns in different niches because that is what I understood that I had to do when I read the Guide. I would have appreciated to receive this comment when I did my post. I don't moved from TJ, to POF, to PPV, I never said that. I tried PPV and then I moved to Adult.
Regarding the work and tests, for each campaigns on TJ I did at least 80 banners (300x250px) and I created (not copied) more than 10 Landing Pages for EACH campaign. I can show you these anytime. My top 5 banners have a CTR of 0.30% or more on TrafficJunky and my best Landing Pages have a CTR between 35% and 50% on CPV Lab. I could not have these results without working. Moreover, I will do a new post (Follow Along) with screenshots, stay tuned!
@francis I met other affiliates this year in Vegas. I had the honor to be with other MaxBounty rewarded affilates (I have been successful enough on FB to be there) and it's one of these affiliates who talked about STM.
@fjk87 You wrote a great review but I disagree completely with your last sentence. It is rude and totally unjustified. I also took the time to say that I have not spent most of the evening to write this post if I did not believe in this forum. I know I just have to click the cancel button if I'm not satisfied, I do not need your help for that. I'll remember the positive side of your message and forget the last sentence. BTW, I don't know who you are to suggest to cancel, you should not do that. If I'm in a restaurant and someone at the next table doesn't like his meal I will not tell him to go away, it's not MY business. Now, let me answer this to your points:
1) Read the last paragraph again, I said: "…I don't ask to anyone to do the work for me, I just want to be pointed in the right direction, just that.".
2) Never asked for mentoring. However, if I do a Follow Along I'm waiting for a reply. I got nothing!
3) Read my post again, I said "…I sent a PM to maynzie". I think he is one of the most experienced. I got no answer.
4) If someone has explained that when I posted my Follow Along, it would have been my pleasure to send screenshots etc.
5) Read the "sales pitch" of the forum here: stmforum.com/newforum/1/
6) I did 30 posts? I know I'm older than most members of this forum but I did not know I had memory loss as important! However, I checked in my settings and it is really write that I did 30 posts! I can reassure you that I did ONLY 3 posts! Note to STM administrators, there is a bug here. Good luck to find the other 27 posts, they just don't exist. I don't logged on the forum for several days. BTW, did you really did 473 posts? Check your profil you will see that there is something wrong with this statistic. Otherwise, I can't see how you can expect the golden plate by posting 1.12 time a day!
6…b) No problem if its sounds rude when its justified.
Thanks for the blueprint, that's what I did except I spent more than $1,000!
Last answer: I already talked about it. I appreciate a lot you took time to answer. I would had appreciated to have as mush aswers when I did my follow allong but I think I will be luckier next time!
@winny Unfortunately, you misunderstood my message. How can you know that I don't work hard enough? I have a full time job (9 hours a day) and I work on this business EVERY evening 3 to 4 hours plus about 15 hours the weekends and, on top of that, I take care of my family and even my dog! So, please, don't say that I'm lazy. Those who know me personnaly will tell you that I AM a hard worker.
@caurmen You are very professional and you react quickly! I'm referring here to your today's newsletter. You understood my situation and how I'm feeling. Prior to write this post, I asked myself if I should write it or just leave the forum, it would have been a lot easier but I'm not a looser. I'm old enough to know that failure is a great part of success. I decided to write this post to get help but also I thought that it will help other members, especially the newbies. I'm glad you understood that too.
@bbrock32 Thanks Sir! I'm not discouraged, I'm just a little disappointed. As I said, I helped other members but I got no reply to my follow along nor when I sent PM.
@dynamicsoul Hope you have changed your mind now that your read my answers to other comments.
It's curious. I did a follow along and I got no reply then I sent this post to say I'm disatisfied and I got 8 replies in less than 12 hours!
Now, I hope you understood that the idea of earning $1.00 in 3 days was symbolic? In three months I spent more than $1,000 and a lot of time and I did not make any profit. I agree that I bought data and I learned a lot but it is normal that I want to see some positive results now. The $1.00 profit represents the green zone.
As I said at the beginning, I accept criticism when it is constructive. Accept it as well. If I am not satisfied, I have the right to say it. You can not only accept good feedback. If you do not know this yet, I'll teach you a principle of business: a satisfied customer tells an average of one person that he likes your business, one unhappy customer tells an average of ten people that he dislikes your business. What do you prefer? A member telling you is not satisfied or if you prefer to see him go away without explanation?
O.K. I think we have discussed enough. I have to work now. I will take your criticisms and recommendations and I will do a Follow Along. I just hope that I will get answers, I ask only for that, nothing more, nothing less.
Sincerely, I thanks all of you again, I really appreciate. It does not take much, your replies to this post motivates me greatly. I feel your support... now!
prospect - affiliate marketing isn't easy. I spent $2000 on POF and 50 hours a week for 2 months and I'm just starting to see positive results. I spent a lot of time reading on this forum too.
What I'm getting at is that if you're already working full time and taking care of a family, things are going to be slow. You are getting some results, so keep working on it! You'll get there eventually.
A lot of things on this forum are a bit out dated and some of things promised when signing up don't work, but there is still some really good value here. It takes a bit of effort to find it though!
good luck
Ok , now after that long post I expect an even longer follow along!
Keep us updated.
If you had put the time for those posts in your follow along, it would have been a much better success. 100%. You would have received more answers and more feedback.
Lemme clarify some points you responded to my statement:
1) It's not rude, it is justified. If you feel you're not getting what you paid for, hit the cancel button. It's as easy as that. If I order a t-bone steak and get a filet mignon, I'd cancel the bill too and refuse to pay. It's just like that, nothing rude, nothing aggressive, just honest advice here. I'm nobody special to suggest you to cancel, but everybody can suggest you to do so. It's just the bottom line of your opening post (in my eyes).
2) Your follow along consists of 1 post. You basically listed what you are doing there with some statistics included, but that's not gonna bring you anywhere. What you could have done is take an analytic approach, see what's somehow working for you and focus on this. I'm 100% confident you would have received more replies by doing so. You launched 7 campaigns in 7 various niches, that's (in my opinion) a mistake and the wrong route to take. Much better to focus on ONE source, ONE vertical and make it work. Your verticals range is from car insurance to win a campervan over pcbackup. In some exmaples, you mentioned you did 96 views with 3 landing pages. That's 32 views per landing page. Not gonna bring you ANYWHERE. Not offense, just fact ( taken from your follow along about garcinia cambogia ). What you gotta do is: if you have an offer for win an ipad for example, is try this: try it with a quiz angle, try it with an angle for visitors of certain sites, try it with another quiz angle etc. etc. and not spread over 7 various niches.
Indirectly you did ask for mentoring mentioning nobody helps you out or something similiar, at least I got that impression. If not, sorry for offending you by this statement, certainly wasn't my intention.
3) You sent a PM to maynzie. First of all, if he doesn't respond, ping him on skype. If he still doesn't respond, ping other guys you see are successful on skype or any other IM. Don't give up just because somebody doesn't reply. That's the wrong attitude in that case, I bet if you PMd 5 guys at least 1 would put in a response or take the time to talk to you on skype.
4) There's no need for explanation, you see it from the successful follow alongs. People put detailed information in there and other reply. It's just plain easy to see, that's somehow your fault in my opinion.
5) You did 30 posts, check here http://stmforum.com/forum/search.php?searchid=945513 don't mix threads with posts. Yes I did 473 posts. I am not expecting the golden plate, but you'd be surprised how much you can get from communicating over skype with other guys. I'm not the one posting this opening thread, you are.
6) I don't wanna sound rude or it's at least not my intention, but your post is pretty much that attitude that really harms forums like that over longterm.
What you in fact did is read all the posts but not really stick to them. Clearly everybody's pointing you towards make one source and one vertical work. Did you do that? Hell no. You tried 7 different verticals in your follow. What's a recommendation is: Source XXX with Placement XXX with vertical XXX and get it working. Stick to this shit and post a detailed follow along and I'll guarantee you'll receive good and valuable feedback.
You saying you don't get a reply in the follow along but in this thread you get a shitload of replies. Ever bothered to ask WHY? This would be a perfect entry point. Your follow along wasn't a follow along but a 1 post wonder at its best, THAT'S why you didn't get any replies. Follow alongs are following the action you take, not a 1 post wonder.
At the very end of your recent post you say you can't only accept good feedback. You're mixing up facts here. Fact is, you pay for ACCESS to this forum and to tools which gonna help you. Bottom line. You don't pay for constructive feedback based on the goodwill of others which you clearly expect by paying for a forum. To put your eyes clear, nobody really gives a lot about what somebody tells about a forum unless he's a guy you know well for months / years and really knows his shit.
If you wanna start a follow along, do it like that:
1) Pick ONE source
2) Pick ONE Vertical
3) Try to make THIS vertical work on THIS source.
4) Update your follow along regularly and you WILL get feedback / support.
Additional info: if you do adult, spent AT LEAST 2-3 x payout per creative / LP combo to get ANY data that will get you an idea of what you're doing. DO NOT test 20 banners with 5 landing pages for a 100$ budget. ALWAYS look out for spent per creative / LP combo. It should be 2x+++ payout as a rule of thumb.
Now that's pretty much my final statement on this, if you do care about it or not, it's up to you. I'm 100% sure you will get help / feedback if you do it the right way. If you finally manage to do it, pretty much depends on your own. Again, if I sound offensive or rude, it's not my intention, it's just a straight feedback I give you. Take it or leave it.
Keep it simple. I think you might be biting off more than you can chew. I agree with needing focus in AM. You can work long days but being easily distracted by new ideas etc. Doing this will give you a lot of mediocre campaigns, instead of a handful of great campaigns. You've made $100 a day for 2 days, why don't you try find another similar offer and keep running that campaign?
@fjk87 When I read your post, I realize that my English is very bad! Definitely, you don't understand what I'm trying to explain. Have you read the STM ebook for newbie? They suggested to create one campaign a day for 30 days in any niches. In my follow along, I said that I was not sure that it was a good idea. So, of course I agree with you that it is a mistake. I just followed the instruction of the ebook as I have understood.
About the post, it is really not important but I persist to say that I don't did 30 posts, I'm not stupid, I would remembered this. You can search for this, you will never find it.
Today I explained that I tried PPV as I understood the instructions of the STM ebook, 1 campaign a day and after I did a "quick" post that I named a follow along and I agree that it was not enough detailed but I was new to this forum and I did it the best I can at this time. After that, I focused on one vertical and stay with this. Why do you tell that I don't stick with this?
I know that I pay for access the forum and use the tools AND to help and be helped by other members. That is how this forum was presented to me.
BTW, I talked with other members on Skype, I just talked with one earlier today and you can add me on Skype if you want, it will be my pleasure to discuss with you and, if I can, to help you. The greatest success I had on FB was in your country.
As you said, I will put more time to my NEXT follow along, now that I know how to do it. However, I wanted to give an honest feedback after 3 months on this forum, maybe I have misunderstood how it works but it is much clear now.
I have no problem with someone who is right on target when he gives his opinion, as long as he is polite and respectful.
Thanks for the info about how to do a follow along and about how to work with adult campaigns and, of course, thanks for your time, I appreciate.
No hard feelings!
I found success on FB and got my account banned, now I am trying to get a new account, instead of jumping over to some other traffic source. I don't think what you did makes sense, but that's just my opinion.
@prateekdwivedi I tried to get a new FB account but I just don't found how. That's why I asked on my first post of this thread:
"Is this working yet: http://stmforum.com/forum/showthread...r-Being-Banned "
I'm not a good techie and I don't understand all the principles of proxies and VPN. I searched information here and on the net and I found suggestions like HydeMyAss but a friend told me that these companies are very well known and is likely that their VPN IPs are already widely known and high chance of being detected.
This week, I see the post aforementioned but I don't know if it works yet. If you tried it and it works for you or if you find another way to got new FB account, please let me know, I'm very interested. 
However, I think that learning how to work with another source of traffic is a good thing. It allows diverse revenue. My goal is to learn to be profitable with a new source of traffic and then with another.
Today, I found a mentor who I highly trust. Hi coaching is very expensive but he guarantees results. Basically, this may be what I was looking for on this forum. My expectations were perhaps too high as explained fjk87.
First try to get one traffic source to work and earn enough to move on to another one. That's actually what I am trying to do. If you want to know more about accounts, PM me.
Wow I'm glad the community responded with such passion here!
Like I told you from the beginning, the best way to use this forum is to get skypes and build relationships there (and even better in person). The next best way is to learn the "meta game" of affiliate marketing through pro's posts.
I'm glad you're focusing up and persisting. The trick is to just never quit.
My realizations in past few days. I hope it helps for you:
1. Reading without acting = waste of time. Yes it is important to read just to get basic understanding, but when you become forum "ninja" and you are only reading then when time comes to implement either
a. you do not know where to start
b. you are not focused
c. you can't remember stuff which would help at the moment
2. http://www.viddler.com/v/669c7e75 (MUST)
Thanks my friend Zeal!
I don't wanted to give up, I just wanted to find how to get attention! ah ah!
It will be helpful for my next Follow Along! 
I also learned that some members have their membership very seriously, we do not really like the criticism here! In life, we can not always expect to be that one who is beautiful and kind. If I wrote a post to say how pleased I was, there would have been much less passion!